Link for worship May and June 2023

Pamela McNeil is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.

Topic: Sunday worship
Time: May 7, 2023 10:00 AM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
Every week on Sun, until Jun 25, 2023, 8 occurrence(s)
May 7, 2023 10:00 AM
May 14, 2023 10:00 AM
May 21, 2023 10:00 AM
May 28, 2023 10:00 AM
Jun 4, 2023 10:00 AM
Jun 11, 2023 10:00 AM
Jun 18, 2023 10:00 AM
Jun 25, 2023 10:00 AM

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Worship connection through Media

Beginning on the first Sunday in March:

Pamela McNeil is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.

Topic: sunday worship for March and April
Time: Mar 5, 2023 10:00 AM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
Every week on Sun, until Apr 30, 2023, 9 occurrence(s)
Mar 5, 2023 10:00 AM
Mar 12, 2023 10:00 AM
Mar 19, 2023 10:00 AM
Mar 26, 2023 10:00 AM
Apr 2, 2023 10:00 AM
Apr 9, 2023 10:00 AM
Apr 16, 2023 10:00 AM
Apr 23, 2023 10:00 AM
Apr 30, 2023 10:00 AM

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Invitation to Lent

The service on Sunday February 26 will begin with an invitation to Lent, confession and the imposition of ashes. Join in person or through the usual zoom link found on the parish FB page.

If joining through media, prepare your space with bread and wine for communion, and oil, water or ash. Place it in a special area, and light a candle if you wish.
Here is a short reflection I offer to mark the beginning of lent.

Blessed are we, 

A mess of contradictions

In our delusions and deep hopes

In our fragility and finitude (limitations)

~Kate Bowler

Reflection on Matthew 6:1-6; 16-21

We read scripture and hear Jesus say not to disfigure our face with ashes when we fast, and then we stand to receive a cross of ash on our forehead. It seems to be a contradiction. Today we are reminded that the mark is not meant as a symbol of piety but rather it is a reminder of our mortality and a reminder of our dependence on God’s grace. 

We open our hands to the hopeless, the homeless, the addicted, hoping for their life to turn around, and then we proceed in the delusion it could never happen to us. I remember being astonished when a prison guard told my college class that his actions toward inmates were always generous because “you never know when you might be the one behind bars”…. I foolishly thought that was ridiculous because I thought we had control to be free. I’ve learned that prisons take many different forms, …. When disaster strikes, when health diagnoses are terminal, when dearest relationships crumble through betrayal… The prison of grief and loss surrounds us. Ashes of that loss remind us of our mortality and our complete dependence on Gods grace.

We carefully set up a system for security and wealth, planning for stability for our later years. We set aside finances for the future… a future that quickly disappears as change shakes what we expected. This earthly life is fragile and even living rebelliously has limitations. In the ashes of our assumptions and plans we are reminded of Gods grace. 

We are reminded that the cross marked us in our baptism and we are named child of God. Nothing can separate us from that promise. 

As we proceed into the church season of Lent we are invited to receive the ash marking of the cross in humble gratitude for the one who loves us without reservation, who forgives us without conditions and who cleanses us completely through the life, death and resurrection of his Son, Jesus. Amen


the Lord creator took me as dust from the earth,

and formed me into a living being,

breathing into me the breath of life.

God honoured me,

setting me as ruler upon the earth over all things visible,

and made me a companion of the angels.

But Satan the deceiver,

using the serpent as instrument,

enticed me by food-

parted me from the glory of God,

and gave me over to the earth and to the lowest depths of the earth.

But in compassion, O Saviour, call me back again!

Epiphany Events

Find here 1) a retreat for anytime, but especially for Epiphany; 2) An Epiphany blessing for your home; 3) An invitation to receive a “star word”.

Get a star word to guide you this year! What is a star word? On the day that we remember the star that led the magi to Jesus, we pass out pieces of paper decorated with stars and a printed word.

The premise is this: the magi followed the star to find baby Jesus, bringing their gifts. We are also seeking Jesus, trusting God can and does use many signs (or stars) to guide us closer to the Divine presence.

People are invited to receive a star word and carry the word for the year using it, reflecting on it and stretching it so it stretches you! You will be amazed. I invite people to trust the word that selects them. Please message me or leave a comment on this Facebook page if you would like a star word.

Epiphany Blessing for your Home: The inscription chalked above the main door of your home is *20+CMB+23*

The letters stand for either the Latin Blessing Christe mansionem benedicat, which means “Christ Bless this house”; or the legendary names of the magi- Caspar, Melchior, and Balthasar.

This simple ritual accompanies inscribing the blessing over your entrance: Use the parts below which are meaningful to your family.


May peace be to this house and to all who enter here. By wisdom a house is built And through understanding it is established: Through knowledge its rooms are filled With rare and beautiful treasures. (Proverbs 24:3-4)


As we prepare to ask God’s blessing on this household Let us listen to the words of scripture: In the beginning was the Word, And the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God. All things came into being through him And without him not one thing came into being And the life was the light of all people. The Word became flesh and lived among us and we have seen his glory, The glory as of a father’s only son, full of grace and truth. From his fullness we have all received grace upon grace. (John 1:1-4, 14, 16)

Inscription: Write the appropriate letter while speaking the text:

C        Caspar

M       Melchior

B        Balthasar

Followed the star of God’s Son who came to dwell among us

20      two thousand

23      and twenty three years ago.

+       Christ bless this house

+       and remain with us throughout the new year

Prayer of Blessing:

O God, you revealed your Son to all people By the shining light of a star. We pray that you bless this home and all who live here with your gracious presence. May your love be our inspiration, Your wisdom our guide, Your truth our light, And your peace our benediction: Through Christ our Lord Amen

Then everyone may walk from room to room, blessing the house with incense or sprinkling with water using an evergreen branch. From Sundays & Seasons @2022 Augsburg Fortress. Used with permission under ONELICENSE #A-736624. All Rights Reserved

This beautiful Epiphany Retreat can be enjoyed over several days, or weeks, or pondered during one day: I have been invited to share this Epiphany (Women’s Christmas) retreat from Jan Richardson. It is also for men
Introduction: There is a custom, rooted in ireland, of celebrating epiphany (January 6, which brings the christ- mas season to a close) as women’s christmas. called Nollaig na mBan in irish, women’s christmas originated as a day when the women, who often carried the domestic responsibilities all year, took epiphany as an occasion to celebrate together at the end of the holidays, leaving hearth and home to the men for a few hours. celebrated particularly in county cork and county Kerry, the tradition is enjoying a revival. Click on this link for readings, reflections and ponderings

Click to access WomensChristmasRetreat2023.pdf

The Nativity of Our Lord

Solo: O Holy Night                             

Hymn: O Little Town of Bethlehem   

Gathering litany: may be read all together, or alternately with people in your home.

P: It is you, loving God, who lights our path with truth. All: Your Word, Jesus, is truth.

P: In his light, draw all to the manger All: to gather in wonder with the shepherds

P: In his light, draw all to the manger All: to kneel in reverence with the wise ones.

P: In his light, draw all to the manger All: to sing for joy with the angels.

P: In the brightness of his life All: cast away the darkness of injustice, poverty, and hunger in the world.

P: It is you, loving God, who meets us on our way. All: In the light of Jesus, show the world the way of life. Amen.

Light candles

Hymn: Silent Night     


(leader) The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it. Those who dwelt in the land of deep darkness, on them light has shined. We have beheld Christ’s glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father. For to us a child is born, to us a Son is given. In him was life, and the life was the light of all people.

Psalm 96 – Please join in reading the psalm.

1 O sing to the Lord a new song; sing to the Lord, all the earth.

2 Sing to the Lord, bless his name; tell of his salvation from day to day.

3 Declare his glory among the nations, his marvelous works among all the peoples.

4 For great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised; he is to be revered above all gods.

5 For all the gods of the peoples are idols, but the Lord made the heavens.

6 Honour and majesty are before him; strength and beauty are in his sanctuary.

7 Ascribe to the Lord, O families of the peoples, ascribe to the Lord glory and strength.

8 Ascribe to the Lord the glory due his name; bring an offering, and come into his courts.

9 Worship the Lord in holy splendor; tremble before him, all the earth.


Luke 2: 1-7

Hymn: AWAY IN A MANGER                  


Luke 2: 8- 12

Hymn: The first Noel                          

Reading: Luke 2: 13- 20

Hymn: Hark the Herald Angels Sing   

Message: Hello dear friends; I’m sitting at my desk, looking at the snowdrifts half way up the screen, but that doesn’t matter, because I can’t see across the street anyway, so I’m thinking “this isn’t quite the way I had planned to spend my day” – and this isn’t the message I had planned to share with you either.

But things turn out anyway.

So, peace to you this day as we open our hearts from the Advent longing and waiting and grasp on to the love that is given for you and for me this night.

Our service began with the beautiful hymn O Holy Night, and as I sit, isolated, somewhat sad and alone, I hear the words in that hymn “Till He appeared and our souls felt their worth”. The gift of the babe in Bethlehem is to stir our souls to feeling the value of each of us – alone or together, we have value and are treasured. Our souls have worth, WE have worth! This is a beautiful gift of Christmas.

Next, we shared in the words of the hymn O Little Town of Bethlehem, and heard the words “The Hopes and fears of all the years are met in thee tonight” Of all the years, these past few years have seen fear, anxiety, and even some dashed hopes – so how do those words of “hopes and fears of all the years” hit us as we realize this Baby in Bethlehem is God, taken on human form to walk with us in our disappointments and in our celebrations; This child knows our sadness and anxiety, and still chose to become manifest and walk through all that mess with us – that alone is joyous!

Two more hymns speak to me this evening: Silent night with the promise of peace on earth – the silencing of warring weapons and distressed people; the silence of the hungry people in our communities as they were fed Christmas dinner last week at Trinity Lutheran Church in Walkerton; and in the midst of the silence at that dinner, we heard the quiet laughter of a little child eating there with their mom. Peace does not come from silencing the voices of those in distress: Peace is when those voices are satisfied with the necessities for daily living and can gently laugh!

As we realize that the Christ Child is born for us we also see – especially this year – that he is born for me – who is sitting here alone – ME! As we realize that the gift is personal we also take on the responsibility to personally live in ways that bring peace to everyone. This is an individual task, and together with Jesus it is all possible.

Finally, the last hymn which I would like to highlight is not even listed in the Christmas section of the hymnal. Joy to the world is an advent hymn, but it is sung as a Christmas hymn. It could also be an Easter hymn, and a funeral hymn and a baptism hymn, because it is the joyful promise of God, sent to us in a baby in Bethlehem, sent to us in the risen Christ, and in the waters of Baptism, bread and wine and in the promise of eternal life. Joy Joy Joy! We need wait no longer. Christ is born in Bethlehem, Let the world rejoice.



John 1: 14 – 18

Hymn: Joy to the World                        

Presentation of Gifts:

It was a night of gifts. Let us present our gifts.

Offertory Prayer: God of abundance, Receive and bless these gifts we have offered. Join our hearts with the song of the angels and gather us at your table of celebration. Strengthen us to share with all the world the abundance of your grace upon grace, poured out in Jesus Christ, the Word made flesh. Amen

Lord’s prayer

Blessing:        God bless you and keep you

                        + Jesus grant you grace and truth

                        And the Spirit send peace upon your hearts

                        Now and forever. Amen

Hymn: Go Tell it on the Mountain

Dismissal: Christ the Savior is born- Go in peace and proclaim the good news.

R/ Thanks be to God.

 South Grey Bruce Lutheran Parish – an ELCIC community of churches

St Paul’s Lutheran Church Neustadt: 379 Adam St Neustadt Ontario N0G 2M0

St Matthew Lutheran Church Mildmay: 21 Absalom St E, Mildmay, ON N0G 2J0

St Paul Normanby: P.O. Box 66, Neustadt, ON N0G 2M0

O come, O come, Immanuel

Advent meditation for December 24:
O Come, O come Emmanuel

Isaiah 7:14

14 Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign. Look, the young woman is with child and shall bear a son and shall name him Immanuel. That is, God is with us

Rejoice! Rejoice! Immanuel shall come to you, O Israel.

May the peace of God With Us strengthen and keep you; May you be filled with faith in the promise of + Immanuel; and through the Holy Spirit May your life be a blessing to all around you. Amen.

 O come, O Bright and Morning Star, and bring us comfort from afar!

Advent Meditation for December 23:

O come, O bright and morning star

Hosea 6:

Let us know, let us press on to know the Lord;
    his appearing is as sure as the dawn;
he will come to us like the showers,
    like the spring rains that water the earth.”

Rejoice! Rejoice! Immanuel shall come to you, O Israel.

Read this scripture passage silently. What picture comes to mind as you read?
Read it again, out loud this time, if possible. Are their new thoughts that surface?
Read the passage a third time this time pausing to take a breath at each punctuation mark.
go into your day with blessing.